Last week I wrote about how I spent my budget in 2023 and this week I want to dive into my savings and investments.

I wanted to start off (because I know you love a relaxing subject) by reflecting on shame around money. There is a lot about this in terms of getting over feeling shame or guilt about having a low income, or having money troubles and that’s a really important conversation. My own family story with money is a mishmash of being low income with middle class aspirations, meaning that between my family and the people I grew up with had very different incomes, aspirations and feelings about money. I also work in a ‘helping’ industry where there are expectations that we shouldn’t earn as much as e.g. bankers because we are working for a higher purpose and should do it for the feels and not for the remuneration.

So there is a lot mixed up in how I feel about money. On one hand, I am working in a job which helps people, and which I got after working almost 20 years in jobs which paid around the median wage whilst studying on the side as a single mum to achieve, and pay for, a Masters and PhD. On the other, I recognise that I significantly outearn pretty much everyone I know. I guess this would be different if I was in the USA, where every single caller on the financial independence podcasts I listen to seems earn a similar amount to me.

This is a topic I will likely come back to, but I have been uncertain about posting both my spends and savings for 2023, because I am not sure how I feel about being public on an area which has so much judgement. But to make this blog useable and useful, it strikes me that real numebrs are better than theory. So with your kindness, here we go.

Total savings 2023
SIPP personal pension (invested)	£                3,600
ISA savings (invested)	£              15,000
Work Pension (pre-tax – invested by company)	£              15,552
One year living expenses (cash)	£              48,029
Total Saved 2023	£              82,181
Children’s savings
Childrens’ ISA (invested)	£                2,800
Childrens’ Junior Pensions (invested)	£                1,200
Total Saved 2023	£                4,000
Average monthly savings	£                6,848

I have to say that I am pretty happy with that. Compared to my spending of £88,344, savings of £82,181 means I saved almost 50% of my income. This is significantly better than other years, and definintely something to aim for moving forward. This has also been the first year I had zero debt other than my primary mortgage – in 2021-2022 I was paying off a bridging loan I had needed to buy this house, and in previous years was significantly overpaying on the mortgage for my rental. So there was definitely more available to save this year, though all those actions contributed to my net worth.

There need to be some tweaks to how I manage things, based on changes and additional risks in 2024, so I will use this information to guide my planning and goals for 2024.

But I am both proud and slightly guilty at the same time. So something else to work on too!

How was your savings rate in 2023, and how do you feel about it?