My second proper budget check in (having been blogging for 14 months. Small victories). And a lovely short month to focus on, after January which seemed to last 3100 days instead of 31. However, it did contain the February half term holiday; and an even-more-enormous-than-usual heating bill after I did the meter readings and it turned out we used a whole heap more than anticipated in 2020. This was also the month that we had to pull the house deposit together. But here we are: a check in of spending and saving for this month.

I carried on the habit of tallying up the budget weekly, which I found really helpful. What I also noticed was that I do well throughout the month then have a sudden splurgy freakout in the last week and get takeaways etc and generally let loose. I had never really understood that I did this, and it’s so helpful to identify habits like this and be able to work on them.
So, how did we do?
- I spent £6,164, or 133% of my monthly budget. This clearly sucks. There were three issues this month: £700 on winter tyres (I didn’t need them last year, but with temperatures of -9 and weeks of snow and slush, this year I really did). We also went on holiday for the February break, which cost £978, sharing a holiday home with another family just a 90 minute drive away. This felt expensive but it was totally worth it to spend time with others, somewhere with a heated pool and a hot tub. Money well spent having not spent a night away from home since June. Finally, we had a monster heating bill of £1,000 which will be the same every quarter this year. Blimey. We got all the old jumpers, socks and blankets out the day I got that bill, so fingers crossed that we won’t have another such bill next year.
- There were some smaller over-spends against the monthly budget but these should work their way through. I spent £100 on a birthday gift for a colleague where others will pay me back; and another £100 on a series of exercise classes prescribed by the doctor, where my health insurance should cover the cost. Starting that exercise class is hopefully a step on the road to a healthier me, but oh my gosh it’s total hell.
- But there were also lots of areas where I was well under the budget, and I spent 104% of the grocery budget which is the closest I have come to sticking to this one and which I am proud of! So, some gains in spite of the overall overspend.

February | |||
Item | Monthly Budget | Spent Feb | % of monthly budget |
Childcare costs | £ 1,100.00 | £ 730.00 | 66 |
Car (insurance, tax, petrol) | £ 125.00 | £ 731.82 | 584 |
Charity | £ 66.67 | £ 25.83 | 39 |
Eating out | £ 120.00 | £ 92.71 | 77 |
Entertainment – subscription | £ 50.00 | £ 37.24 | 74 |
Entertainment | £ 100.00 | £ 16.02 | 16 |
Kids – extra curricular | £ 250.00 | £ – | 0 |
Family | £ 50.00 | £ – | 0 |
Groceries | £ 400.00 | £ 417.87 | 104 |
Holidays | £ 300.00 | £ 978.41 | 326 |
Insurance | £ 200.00 | £ – | 0 |
Personal care | £ 30.00 | £ 73.45 | 245 |
Shopping – general | £ 25.00 | £ 134.12 | 536 |
Shopping – gifts incl birthdays | £ 58.33 | £ 86.00 | 147 |
Shopping – clothes | £ 29.17 | £ – | 0 |
Rent and Bills | £ 1,500.00 | £ 1,500.00 | 100 |
Transport | £ 41.67 | £ 101.16 | 243 |
Utilities | £ 200.00 | £ 1,240.24 | 620 |
TOTALS | £ 4,645.83 | £ 6,164.87 | 133% |

Monthly Budget | February | % of plan | |
Mortgage Capital | £ 865 | £ 865 | 100 |
Mortgage Overpayment (actually deposit this month) | £ 1,250 | £ 1000 | 80 |
Emergency Fund | £ 100 | £ 100 | 100 |
ISA | £ 1,250 | £ 500 | 40 |
Kids savings | £ 248 | £ 248 | 100 |
SIPP | £ 300 | £ 300 | 100 |
£ 3,148.00 | £ 3,013.00 | 87 |
Whilst the savings rate doesn’t look as good, I didn’t count up everything extra that I paid to my deposit for our house in Denmark, which all had to be in the account by the end of this month and which is in place! That’s £90,000 as a down payment ready in the bank, waiting for a big decision next month. I struggled to get the last little bit in place, so even though it looks as though I saved less than planned I am pretty confident that any additional money trickled into the deposit account and will count as capital at some point!
Overall I saved 34% of my income, and spent 66% which is a little worse than planned.
Hopefully this is because of money spent – such as on the car – where it will balance out over the course of the year. And I am proud of some of the areas where I have been able to really control my spending and starting to see changes, such as grocery spending.
How was your February? I’d love to hear how its going!